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Dreams Don’t Expire

Life is non-fiction… or is it?
Some of the wildest fiction is rooted in truth,
And some truths feel borrowed from stories.
Maybe life is both—
a manuscript we live,
and a tale we keep rewriting.

Dreams spark in unknowing moments. When I was a child, I would stare at the stars and wish for so many things. One day, I was an astronaut exploring distant galaxies; the next, I was a writer penning stories that would touch hearts.

At home, I was always surrounded by stories. My grandparents would fill my world with magical stories, and my parents would introduce me to literature. And the book collection of my parents, oh boy, I dreamt of building a library with the moving ladder.

My imagination was limitless. But adulthood took me by surprise; practicality and responsibilities mattered more. Those dreams, once vibrant and bold, were gently tucked away.

And in the pursuit of living life, I forgot my dream of becoming a writer. But somehow that dream was living through me, and I did not realise.

I joined a research company where I wrote indexes and abstracts. At first glance, it seemed like an uncreative pursuit, but in hindsight, I realise that I was unknowingly living my dream in a new form: I was working with words, dissecting and presenting information. However, the creative spark that had once defined my dreams was missing.

From there, my journey took me to hospitals, where I worked closely with people in deeply human and often emotional settings. Though vastly different from writing, these experiences gave me new perspectives and stories to carry with me.

Sometimes dreams don’t disappear; they simply evolve. They may take detours, pause, hibernate, or even transform into something new, but they always remain a part of us, waiting for the right moment to bloom.

Now, I’ve come to realize what a legacy of dreams truly means:

  1. Dreams Don’t Expire
    Dreams don’t have a deadline. They might change shape or take a backseat, but they never really go away. Even missed opportunities can be reclaimed. So, if life seems to wander off course, don’t worry—your dreams are still there, waiting to be rediscovered.
  2. The Journey Matters as Much as the Dream
    The road we take often teaches us more than we expect. Every step, even the ones that feel unrelated or unimportant, adds something to our story, giving us a richer perspective.
  3. Creativity Finds a Way
    Even in moments when I wasn’t doing something obviously creative, I realized that storytelling had quietly persisted. The experiences and stories I encountered along the way became seeds for the writing I do now.
  4. Every chapter Counts
    Every phase of life—no matter how disconnected it seems—has something to contribute. From analyzing dry abstracts to sitting with patients in their most vulnerable moments, each experience added depth and helped me better understand the human story.
  5. Writing is Rediscovery
    Writing isn’t just about putting words together. For me, it’s become a way to reconnect with myself. It’s about creating something that reflects who I am and everything I’ve learned along the way.

After I became a mom in 2023 and stepped away from my professional world, I thought my dreams might die, wait, or change course—but I didn’t realise this was the phase of my greatest creativity. My dream was quietly waiting for me, just in another form—not in the form of corporate work, but something more heartfelt.

Sometimes, the beauty of dreams lie in how they endure, quietly waiting for us to catch up. Don’t you think that’s the magic of it all?

Words flow effortlessly, inspiration strikes at any moment, and emotions are filled to the brim. During this time, I received many writing assignments and even published my first book, “The Song of Our Bond.” A story that had always lived with me but found expression in the most beautiful phase of my life in an unexpected way.

And then, as I held that first copy of my book, feeling the weight of words I had once only dared to dream of, a quiet certainty settled in my heart, and that’s when I knew I was writing again.

Writing The Song of Our Bond has been more than just creating a story — it’s been a homecoming of sorts. Through Meena and Kastur (the protagonists), I revisited the streets of Khurda Road in Odisha, the laughter of childhood, and the unspoken strength of women who carry love even in the face of loss. This book is my tribute to them, to female friendships that withstand time, to children who grow through grief, and to the stories that continue to sing within us long after they are told.

PS: This post is a part of ‘Real and Rhythm Blog Hop’ hosted by Manali Desai and Sukaina Majeed under #EveryConversationMatters blog hop series.

PS: This post is part of Blogchatter Half Marathon 2025

PS: This blog post is part of ‘Blogaberry Dazzle’ hosted by Cindy D’Silva and Noor Anand Chawla in collaboration with Ratna Prabha.

You can check out my book “The Song of Our Bond” on Amazon. Click Here

54 Replies to “Dreams Don’t Expire”

  1. I really liked how you started with that image of your younger self dreaming of the stars. I agree with you that dreams don’t disappear but just change their shape. After I read your post I thought about how my own dreams have grown and changed over time too. #BlogchatterHalfMarathon

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  3. “Sometimes, the beauty of dreams lie in how they endure, quietly waiting for us to catch up.” Beautifully put.

    We should dare to dream…and also have the courage to revisit our dreams, look them in the eye and make new commitments.

    Kudos to you for holding onto your dreams!

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  6. Dreams or rather day dreaming, you are referring to goals. Of course they keep growing and evolving with us. I liked the way you started from the stars and ended with writing your book. WE need to enjoy the journey as well. We will reach the destination sooner or later.

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  7. Really loved this piece — the way you explore the spark of childhood dreams and the courage to keep them alive even when the world shifts around you felt so genuine. You reminded me of my own journey as a writer ( I think you read it as part of Dazzle a few weeks back)

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  8. Your post really spoke to me, the idea that dreams don’t have an expiry date is something we forget so easily in the daily grind. I love how you wove personal reflection with creative imagery. Thanks for the reminder to chase what still calls.

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  9. Your post really spoke to me, the idea that dreams don’t have an expiry date is something we forget so easily in the daily grind. I love how you wove personal reflection with creative imagery. Thanks for the reminder to chase what still calls.

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  10. Your post really spoke to me, the idea that dreams don’t have an expiry date is something we forget so easily in the daily grind. I love how you wove personal reflection with creative imagery. Thanks for the reminder to chase what still calls.

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  14. The way you describe holding onto aspirations even when life steers us off course felt hopeful. I feel it’s never too late to revisit what once set our hearts on fire. Your example of re-igniting lost ambitions through reflection and stillness was empowering.
    #BlogaberryDazzle

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  16. I love and believe in the concept of dreams evolving. Your journey from a starry-eyed kid to holding your book in your hand proves that dreams don’t have deadlines or set rules. One must enjoy the journey and keep believing. Happy for you!

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  17. So true. Dreams rarely die and I love the way you have weaved your dream in this post. Your book sounds interesting and I have made a note of it

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  22. Your words give hope and strength to not stop chasing your dream even if they seem distant or unattainable. Despite labouring in another field of writing and missing the creative spark , you did not stop dreaming. The result – this beautiful book – The song of our Bond.

    Well done Pinkii!

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  23. I love your opening question whether life is non-fiction and your suggestion that fiction could be truer sometimes. There’s so much philosophy in it. I’ve reflected on it quite often. Every time I read a good novel, I’m convinced that fiction is truer than history. Think of Hilary Mantel, for example.

    I hope to read your book too sooner than later.

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    1. Thank you so much sir for this insightful reflection. The idea that fiction can sometimes feel truer than lived history fascinates me too and now you’ve made me curious to explore Hilary Mantel’s work. I am truly honoured that you would like to read my book. It would truly mean a lot to know your thoughts on the book.

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  24. Your post is deeply inspiring — I love how you remind us that dreams aren’t bound by time. Your words beautifully encourage perseverance, belief, and the courage to keep hope alive, no matter how long the journey feels.

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  26. Writing is discovery and I also believe, creativity finds its own way. I loved reading your self-reflection in this piece because every word resonated with my thoughts and thus, it became a memorable one for me. I always find a connection to you through the medium of your words. Sending you lots of love and best wishes for your writing journey and your book!

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  27. What a tender, luminous journey this is. Your story feels like a gentle hand on the shoulder — reminding us that dreams don’t vanish, they just wait for us to find our way back. The Song of Our Bond reads like a return to one’s truest self, stitched with memory, motherhood, and the quiet courage of becoming. A beautiful tribute, and an even more beautiful homecoming.

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  29. Pinki, I’m mighty impressed with your journey and your progress. From changing careers to finally writing and publishing your own book, is a complete circle. The hourney definitely mightn’t be easy but your determination and love for words surely won. Kudos!

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  30. “Sometimes dreams don’t disappear; they simply evolve.” Truer words were never spoken. I love the way you have spoken about the various ways with which you tried to arrive at writing, and that dreams do not have an expiry date. Your journey displays the hope and fortitude that will help many. Congratulations on your book as well. May it soar and reach readers’ hearts!

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  33. This is a profoundly moving reflection on how creative dreams never truly expire, instead taking necessary detours through life’s practical exams before the final destination. It is a writing of self-discovery.

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  34. True, patience is the key. If we wait, our dreams do find a way. Loved reading how your experiences and stories helped you in writing a book, even when you were least expecting it. Sometimes, we just give up, just when we are about to realize our dream.

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  35. This resonated deeply. I loved how you turned childhood stars, corporate drudgery, and motherhood into stepping stones — not obstacles — for your writing dreams. Proof that passion isn’t about timing, but endurance. Thanks for reminding us all that dreams don’t expire, they just change shape

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